Archive for ‘Schnider’

July 19, 2011

4 years old….

Its hard to believe.

Our first baby boy is 4 years old.  


How did that happen? 

It was just yesterday I was holding this little baby on my lap. 

Schnider at 4 months old. 

It feels just like just a few months ago we were saying goodbye.  

What a hearbreaking time that was for our family.  

I can hardly bear to think about it.  

Our last weekend together before I took him back to Haiti. 

I know I say this all the time….but oh my goodness, how we miss him. 

Three years later, he is on our minds and in our thoughts every day.  

Mayer knows he has a brother in Haiti.    He prays for Schnider every night.

They will meet someday.  Someday we’ll go to Haiti together .  We will make it happen. 

As hard as it has been for us to not have him here with us any longer –
we are rejoicing in the success story that is his family. 

Schnider and his momma in Haiti

And that he’s growing up so big, is healthy and oh so loved.  

That he’s stayed safe during the earthquake and the cholera outbreaks. 

So many prayers still going up for this sweet boy. 

Happy 4th birthday Schnider-bug!

We love you so much!

May 26, 2011

Oh my goodness!!!

We got new pictures today our of our beautiful, sweet Schnider-boy!

He’ll be four in June. FOUR. I just can hardly believe it.

He looks so big, healthy and happy in these pictures!!!

Oh, how we love and miss him….


July 23, 2010

Not amused…

I was searching through old pictures today on flickr (looking for something I never found) but I came across this picture and couldn’t help but laugh.

This is right after we got baby Lena from Haiti who stayed with us until we could get her to WA for surgery.

I think Schniders expression clearly shows just how he felt about having another baby in the house.  :)

My goodness, I love and miss him so much. 

September 6, 2009

Look who I got new pictures of today!!
Doesn’t he look awesome?!




August 19, 2009

Today, as I sat and searched for cheap tickets to Haiti so that I could go see my sweet Schnider-bug, the tears came.  They no longer come several times a day, like they did at first.  Now, I can usually mention him without crying.  I can glance at his pictures on the wall and not burst into tears.  I can even walk in his room and not cry.  That has taken a long time. 

I have a confession.  Until last week, his room was exactly the way it was his last morning here – it looked just like it did that morning 10 months ago when I walked into his room and slowly picked that sweet, sleeping baby up out of his crib and felt him snuggle into my chest.  It was exactly the same, dirty clothes on the floor, milk stains on the crib sheet, opened tube of rash cream on the changing table, toys everywhere.  The truth? After I got back from Haiti, I hated going in that room.  I felt like I couldn’t breath when I went in his room. I only went in when I had to.  Like when we moved his highchair from the dining room to his room, several days after I got back.  And several weeks later when we were finally brave enough to pack up all the toys from the living room and put them away.   The door to his room has been closed since October 2008.   Only opened when absolutely necessary.

Last week, in preperation for our home inspection, Keith cleaned his room.  Washed and packed away the laundry, put all the toys away, swept the floor.  His door has been open since then.  Everything is where it always was, the crib, the changing table, the dresser, but it’s been OK.  Somehow, it seems to have helped to have it all cleaned up. 

As I was sitting here looking at tickets, I couldn’t help but think of the last time I saw Schnider.  10 months ago.  10 LONG months ago.  I can’t believe it’s been 10 months.  I can’t believe I’ve missed almost a year of his life.  He still feels so much like “our” baby.  I don’t know if that will ever change.  My heart still aches thinking about him.  I miss him so much.  

 I can’t wait until I can see him.  I want to see how much he’s changed.  I want to see how much he loves his mom now – I want to see how much his momma loves him.  I actually WANT to see him prefer her over me.  I really do. 

I can’t wait to be able to hold him, kiss him and hear his voice.   It has been so long since I’ve heard his little voice.  Sometimes I forget exactly what it sounds like – he has the cutest little voice.  Chelsey brought that up the other day and I just had to go home and watch one of the videos from when he was here, just had to be reminded of his voice. 

I hope and pray I’ll be in Haiti soon to see him.  Soon, soon, soon….
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February 8, 2009

Our Sweet Schnider

February 4, 2009

Guess who I just got to talk to on the phone?!


I got to sing him his favorite song and tell him how much we love and miss him. It was wonderful….

January 26, 2009

I’m on a video kick…

This is cute.  Oh, how I miss my Schnider-man….  You like how I calmly try to explain to two 18 month olds that one of them had the toy first?  Yeah,  not sure what I was thinking…LOL.